Virgo

Virgo: Characteristics

Integrating With The Self.

The task for each of us is to develop our Virgo characteristics of concern, salvage and repair, until we learn to unite opposites by changing our response to life. We are seeking a deeper integration, a new beginning, a break from tradition, and a new kind of love.

There is a kind of helplessness that precedes all change. It is really just the beginning stages of a later letting-go. Being helpless, and ready to sacrifice our cherished concepts about what it is that we need, is the first phase. It is a humbling experience that brings a deeper integration from appearances, back to causes, as the intelligence of the One Self.

We all seek love, but only find it in its transitory form, and we have reached a phase where we now know that all forms are temporary. It is because of that, that sacrificial love can make love feel big, and to share, by experiencing different kinds of loving, and being loved. The ultimate goal for us is to love without attachment, to allow someone else to be themselves, and still support them in their stupid-ness. We want to get what we require for love, while at the same time keep giving it.

A state of helplessness must precede change. As we begin to let go of fixing things, our emotions are freed to express in a new way. This is the first phase of loving without attachment, to let-go of our cherished concepts of how our life should have turned out. Instead, we need to freely share the qualities of love that previously we would have kept hidden from strangers.

Our acceptance, caring, and unconditional support, are the tools to unite us with a bigger loving, a deeper integration with others. Teach, write, whatever we do to make it feel like everyone is depending on us, and we discover, we need only depend on responding with love.